Big Reactors is a lifeline for any parent raising deeply feeling kids. Claire Lerner is a master and her book is full of empathy and wise insights. She replaces guilt and confusion with understanding and concrete strategies that truly work. -- Melinda Wenner Moyer, science journalist and author of How Not To Raise Kids Who Arent Assholes Claire Lerner speaks with genuine empathy and immense experience to parents who are feeling distraught and confused by typical parenting advice that is failing themthat doesn't reflect the reality of life with these fierce kids. She fills a critical gap by offering insights and tools developed from her decades of experience working with families of big reactors that enable their sensitive, "orchid" kids, and thus their families, to thrive. -- Aliza Pressman, New York Times bestselling author of The Five Principles of Parenting and host of Raising Good Humans Podcast As a parent to a big reactor, I devoured this book. Lerner translates her decades working with families of highly sensitive children into relatable narratives, weaving in just enough research to establish her expertise with these kids without straying from her common sense, practical approach. Shes cracked the art of teaching caregivers how to set compassionate limits with children who have intense reactions to not being in control. With Lerners guidance, parents can help these kids learn the elusive skills of resilience, frustration tolerance, and flexibility. Parents to big reactorsoften left out of advice bookswill feel more seen and empowered than ever! -- Shelly Miller, founder of The Teacher Momma Claire Lerner has created the guide many parents have been searching for. Big Reactors is clinically rich, deeply compassionate, and grounded in decades of experience with families of highly sensitive children. Claire helps parents understand their childrens behavior, not as bad or difficult but as deeply feeling and deeply impacted by the world around them. This book is a gift: practical, affirming, and rooted in real science and real life. -- Helen Egger, MD, child psychiatrist and co-founder of Little Otter Heath Claire Lerners book, Big Reactors, gets it right for parents of highly sensitive children by offering clear, practical advice and explanations to help them understand how best to meet their childs needs. A broad range of anecdotes will ensure that almost all parents facing these situations will find themselves reflected and heard in this valuable book. -- Dipesh Navsaria, MPH, MSLIS, MD, professor of Pediatrics and Human Development & Family Studies, University of WisconsinMadison Big Reactors meets parents where they are by offering compassion, validation, and practical support for raising highly sensitive children. Claire Lerners insightful book acknowledges the self-doubt many parents feel, reassuring them that while supporting children with big emotions and unique needs is undeniably challenging, it is absolutely possible. Through a responsive, nurturing lens, Big Reactors empowers parents and caregivers with actionable strategies rooted in empathy and connection. The books approach mirrors the very mindset it encouragesone that is responsive, patient, and attuned to the temperament of orchid children who require an individualized approach to thrive. -- Katrina Macasaet, senior professional development manager, ZERO TO THREE
