Preface |
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Introduction |
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Social Media and Online Resources |
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What Is the Nature of Complicated Bereavement? |
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1 Attachment, Loss, and the Experience of Grief |
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For Reflection and Discussion |
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2 Understanding the Mourning Process |
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Task I To Accept the Reality of the Loss |
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Task II To Process the Pain of Grief |
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Task III To Adjust to a World Without the Deceased |
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Task IV To Find a Way to Remember the Deceased While Embarking on the Rest of One's Journey Through Life |
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Some Alternate Models to Consider |
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Therese Rando's Six "R" Model of Mourning |
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Simon Rubin's Two Track Model of Mourning |
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Stroebe and Colleagues' Dual Process Model |
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For Reflection and Discussion |
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3 The Mourning Process: Mediators of Mourning |
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Mediator 1: Kinship: Who Died? |
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Mediator 2: The Nature of the Attachment |
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Mediator 3: How the Person Died |
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Suddenness or Unexpectedness |
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Mediator 4: Historical Antecedents |
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Mediator 5: Personality Variables |
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Ego Strength: Self-Esteem and Self-Efficacy |
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Assumptive World: Beliefs and Values |
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Mediator 6: Social Variables |
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Mediator 7: Concurrent Losses and Stresses |
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Caution: Mourning Behavior is Multidetermined |
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When is Mourning Finished? |
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For Reflection and Discussion |
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78 | (1) |
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4 Grief Counseling: Facilitating Uncomplicated Grief |
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Goals of Grief Counseling |
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Who Does Grief Counseling? |
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When to Do Grief Counseling |
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Where Should Grief Counseling Be Done? |
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Who Receives Grief Counseling? |
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Identifying the At-Risk Bereaved |
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Counseling Principles and Procedures |
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Principle 1 Help the Survivor Actualize the Loss |
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Principle 2 Help the Survivor to Identify and Experience Feelings |
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Principle 3 Assist Living Without the Deceased |
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Principle 4 Help Find Meaning in the Loss |
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Principle 5 Help Find Ways to Remember the Deceased |
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Principle 6 Provide Time to Grieve |
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Principle 7 Interpret Normal Behavior |
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Principle 8 Allow for Individual Differences |
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Principle 9 Examine Defenses and Coping Styles |
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Principle 10 Identify Pathology and Refer |
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Grief Counseling in Groups |
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Determine Leadership Approach |
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Understand Interpersonal Dynamics |
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Handle Disruptive Behaviors Effectively |
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117 | (3) |
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Facilitating Grief Through Funeral Rituals |
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120 | (2) |
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Does Grief Counseling Work? |
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122 | (2) |
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For Reflection and Discussion |
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124 | (1) |
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5 Abnormal Grief Reactions: Complicated Mourning |
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Why People Fail to Grieve |
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An Emerging Diagnosis of Complicated Grief |
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An Existing Model of Complicated Mourning |
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Exaggerated Grief Reactions |
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145 | (2) |
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147 | (2) |
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Diagnosing Complicated Mourning |
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149 | (4) |
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For Reflection and Discussion |
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153 | (1) |
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6 Grief Therapy: Resolving Complicated Mourning |
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Goals and Settings of Grief Therapy |
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160 | (2) |
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Procedures for Grief Therapy |
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Rule Out Physical Disease |
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162 | (1) |
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Set Up the Contract and Establish an Alliance |
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162 | (1) |
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Revive Memories of the Deceased |
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Assess the Mourning Tasks With Which the Patient Is Struggling |
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Deal With Affect or Lack of Affect Stimulated by Memories |
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165 | (2) |
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Explore and Defuse Linking Objects |
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Help the Patient Acknowledge the Finality of the Loss |
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Help the Patient Design a New Life Without the Deceased |
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Assess and Help the Patient Improve Social Relationships |
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Help the Patient Deal With the Fantasy of Ending Grieving |
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Special Considerations for Grief Therapy |
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Dreams in Grief Counseling and Therapy |
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For Reflection and Discussion |
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7 Grieving Special Types of Losses |
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183 | (4) |
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Counseling Survivors of Suicide Victims |
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187 | (3) |
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Reality Test the Guilt and Blame |
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187 | (1) |
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Correct Denial and Distortions |
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187 | (1) |
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Explore Fantasies of the Future |
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188 | (1) |
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Reality Test the Sense of Abandonment |
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188 | (1) |
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Help Them in Their Quest to Find Meaning in the Death |
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189 | (1) |
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Sudden Death-Violent Deaths |
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Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) |
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For Reflection and Discussion |
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210 | (1) |
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8 Grief and Family Systems |
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222 | (6) |
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228 | (1) |
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Children Whose Parents Die |
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229 | (5) |
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Family Intervention Approaches |
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Family Versus Individual Needs |
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For Reflection and Discussion |
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9 The Counselor's Own Grief |
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254 | (1) |
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For Reflection and Discussion |
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10 Training for Grief Counseling |
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Index |
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