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Modern American Manners: Dining Etiquette for Hosts and Guests [Hardback]

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  • Formāts: Hardback, 216 pages, height x width x depth: 229x191x23 mm, weight: 1002 g, 150 color photos
  • Izdošanas datums: 20-Apr-2017
  • Izdevniecība: Skyhorse Publishing
  • ISBN-10: 151071765X
  • ISBN-13: 9781510717657
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  • Formāts: Hardback, 216 pages, height x width x depth: 229x191x23 mm, weight: 1002 g, 150 color photos
  • Izdošanas datums: 20-Apr-2017
  • Izdevniecība: Skyhorse Publishing
  • ISBN-10: 151071765X
  • ISBN-13: 9781510717657
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This practical and humorous guide helps readers learn appropriate manners so they can enjoy the pleasures of good food, good drink, and good company without worrying about what behavior is proper. Chapters cover how to be a good host, how to be a good guest, and how to behave at business events, cocktail parties, formal dinners, and restaurants. There is also a unique chapter discussing pet peeves and how to handle them with grace, civility, and appropriate manners.

Whats the proper way to hold a wine glass? Whats an appropriate gift to bring a host—and what shouldnt you bring? How should you correctly introduce guests to each other? If youre the host, how do you determine who should sit next to whom? What should you do if you dont want to drink alcohol at a cocktail party? What is appropriate cell phone usage at a business dinner? Here are easy-to-implement answers to these and many other important etiquette questions.

Lavishly illustrated with memorable full-color photographs that highlight both good and bad table manners, Modern American Manners is full of friendly advice for business professionals, college students entering the workplace, and anyone needing a refresher course or an introduction to proper behavior.

Recenzijas

“In this crazy world we live in, manners and etiquette have somehow become a lost art. This gap can make many people uncomfortable whether at home, with friends, or at a business meeting. Dr. Fred Mayo, Professor of Hospitality and Tourism Management, and Michael Gold, photographer extraordinaire with a lighthearted lens, have put together this fabulous book as a guide to help us all get back on track with a sensible, simple, concise, and fun approach. —Kevin Zraly, internationally recognized wine expert and educator, creator of the Windows on the World Wine School, author of several books on wine, and recipient of the 2011 James Beard Lifetime Achievement Award

“Modern American Manners: Dining Etiquette for Hosts and Guests by Fred Mayo and Michael Gold should be a required reading not only for students and young professionals, but for everyone. The book provides excellent pictures of the dos and donts with thought-provoking information for people to use throughout their lives. In particular, the Manners in Business chapter is one of the most important sections for new and experienced professionals, reinforcing the importance of proper conduct in business settings, which many people have either forgotten or never learned. —Joseph A. McInerney CHA, Emeritus President and Chief Executive Officer, American Hotel & Lodging Association

“Remember those etiquette lessons your parents tried to teach you? Modern American Manners goes well beyond those teachings and provides invaluable information for those who like to throw a party and those who like to attend social gatherings. Best of all, the authors provide the information in a lighthearted and comical way. —Dr. Dennis Reynolds, Barron Hilton Distinguished Chair and Dean, Conrad N. Hilton College of Hotel and Restaurant Management, University of Houston

“Good manners are essential for putting yourself—and others—at ease for every occasion. But where can you turn to learn the basics of proper etiquette, whether you are entertaining at home, socializing for work, selecting the proper hostess gift, or want to fine tune your conversation skills and be an enjoyable guest? Simply turn to the pages in Modern American Manners. Authors Fred Mayo and Michael Gold provide the essentials of contemporary manners with helpful tips for any social situation, all illustrated with Michaels spot on, often humorous, photographs. —Melanie Young, Host of The Connected Table LIVE!

"I was once told that manners are the lubricant of social intercourse. This book is the modern guide to manners, etiquette, and polite behavior that our society needs. Fred Mayo and Michael Gold have created a clearly written and comprehensive book that covers every social and private situation that I can think of and details the way to behave in each situation. It also separates the polite from the rude. So much more than a list of ‘do's and don't's, this book explains and shows the ‘why's behind the ways we should act. It belongs in the hands of everyone who would have the world think well of them. —Darrin Siegfried, President Emeritus, The Sommelier Society of America, Inc.

“A comprehensive and fascinating book on American manners….The friendly style invites readers to consider how to be good guests and hosts. The chapter on entertaining and practicing manners in business settings is especially helpful. I recommend it to everyone who wants to know about how to enjoy dining with colleagues and friends. —Professor Kaye Chon, Dean and Chair Professor, Walter Kwok Foundation Professor in International Hospitality Management , School of Hotel & Tourism Management, The Hong Kong Polytechnic University

"A useful guide to navigating the often confusing—and always evolving—world of manners at today's dinner table. Among many things, it is a quiet plea to acknowledge civility at a time when we apparently need it most. —James Oseland, former Editor-in-Chief of Saveur magazine, author of Cradle of Flavor and judge on Top Chef Masters “In this crazy world we live in, manners and etiquette have somehow become a lost art. This gap can make many people uncomfortable whether at home, with friends, or at a business meeting. Dr. Fred Mayo, Professor of Hospitality and Tourism Management, and Michael Gold, photographer extraordinaire with a lighthearted lens, have put together this fabulous book as a guide to help us all get back on track with a sensible, simple, concise, and fun approach. —Kevin Zraly, internationally recognized wine expert and educator, creator of the Windows on the World Wine School, author of several books on wine, and recipient of the 2011 James Beard Lifetime Achievement Award

“Modern American Manners: Dining Etiquette for Hosts and Guests by Fred Mayo and Michael Gold should be a required reading not only for students and young professionals, but for everyone. The book provides excellent pictures of the dos and donts with thought-provoking information for people to use throughout their lives. In particular, the Manners in Business chapter is one of the most important sections for new and experienced professionals, reinforcing the importance of proper conduct in business settings, which many people have either forgotten or never learned. —Joseph A. McInerney CHA, Emeritus President and Chief Executive Officer, American Hotel & Lodging Association

“Remember those etiquette lessons your parents tried to teach you? Modern American Manners goes well beyond those teachings and provides invaluable information for those who like to throw a party and those who like to attend social gatherings. Best of all, the authors provide the information in a lighthearted and comical way. —Dr. Dennis Reynolds, Barron Hilton Distinguished Chair and Dean, Conrad N. Hilton College of Hotel and Restaurant Management, University of Houston

“Good manners are essential for putting yourself—and others—at ease for every occasion. But where can you turn to learn the basics of proper etiquette, whether you are entertaining at home, socializing for work, selecting the proper hostess gift, or want to fine tune your conversation skills and be an enjoyable guest? Simply turn to the pages in Modern American Manners. Authors Fred Mayo and Michael Gold provide the essentials of contemporary manners with helpful tips for any social situation, all illustrated with Michaels spot on, often humorous, photographs. —Melanie Young, Host of The Connected Table LIVE!

"I was once told that manners are the lubricant of social intercourse. This book is the modern guide to manners, etiquette, and polite behavior that our society needs. Fred Mayo and Michael Gold have created a clearly written and comprehensive book that covers every social and private situation that I can think of and details the way to behave in each situation. It also separates the polite from the rude. So much more than a list of ‘do's and don't's, this book explains and shows the ‘why's behind the ways we should act. It belongs in the hands of everyone who would have the world think well of them. —Darrin Siegfried, President Emeritus, The Sommelier Society of America, Inc.

“A comprehensive and fascinating book on American manners….The friendly style invites readers to consider how to be good guests and hosts. The chapter on entertaining and practicing manners in business settings is especially helpful. I recommend it to everyone who wants to know about how to enjoy dining with colleagues and friends. —Professor Kaye Chon, Dean and Chair Professor, Walter Kwok Foundation Professor in International Hospitality Management , School of Hotel & Tourism Management, The Hong Kong Polytechnic University

"A useful guide to navigating the often confusing—and always evolving—world of manners at today's dinner table. Among many things, it is a quiet plea to acknowledge civility at a time when we apparently need it most. —James Oseland, former Editor-in-Chief of Saveur magazine, author of Cradle of Flavor and judge on Top Chef Masters

Introduction xi
Who Will Benefit from This Book? xi
Global and Local Manners xii
Scope of This Book xiii
Ways to Use This Book xiv
Chapter 1 Civility, Manners, and Etiquette
1(9)
Civility
2(1)
Graciousness
2(2)
Manners
4(3)
Etiquette
7(3)
Chapter 2 Conduct Becoming a Guest
10(37)
Basic Principles of Good Manners
11(1)
Responding to an Invitation
12(3)
Hostess Gifts
15(4)
Greetings
19(1)
Cocktails or Before-Dinner Drinks
20(1)
Sitting Down to Eat
21(2)
Beginning the Meal
23(1)
Bread and Butter
24(1)
Unusual Goods
25(1)
Carrying on Conversations
25(1)
Glasses and Stemware
26(5)
Flatware
31(2)
Reaching or Passing Food
33(1)
Common Poor Manners and Courtesy
34(5)
Fingers, Hands, and Elbows
39(1)
Excusing Yourself
40(2)
Ending the Meal
42(1)
Leaving the Table
43(1)
Ending the Evening
43(1)
Thank You
44(1)
Thank You Notes
44(1)
Thank You Presents
45(1)
Thank You by Email
46(1)
Chapter 3 Conduct Becoming a Host
47(25)
Hosting
47(2)
Guidelines for Hosting
49(5)
Invitations
54(2)
Greeting Guests
56(3)
Seating Guests
59(2)
Eating Dinner
61(3)
Starting and Facilitating Conversations
64(1)
Challenges at Dinner
65(4)
Extending the Dinner Party
69(1)
Encouraging Guests to Leave
70(2)
Chapter 4 A Well-Set Tame
72(21)
Getting Started
72(3)
Designing a Beautiful Table
75(2)
Centerpieces
77(4)
Placing Plates
81(2)
Setting the Table with Flatware
83(2)
Placing Glasses
85(2)
Napkins
87(1)
Place Cards
88(1)
Serving Styles and Serving Dishes
89(4)
Chapter 5 Cocktail Party Manners
93(20)
Types of Cocktail Parties
94(2)
Before the Party
96(1)
Entering the Party
97(3)
Being Introduced
100(1)
Mixing and Mingling
100(5)
Eating
105(2)
Not Drinking Alcohol
107(1)
Making Conversation
108(2)
Drinking
110(1)
Leaving the Cocktail Party
111(2)
Chapter 6 Manners in Business Settings
113(28)
The Setting
114(1)
Types of Business Events
114(4)
Networking
118(1)
Introductions
119(2)
Meeting and Greeting
121(2)
Badges
123(1)
Principles of Manners at Business Events
124(2)
Seating at a Business Event
126(2)
Selecting Menu Items at Business Events
128(3)
Dress Codes
131(1)
Table Manners
132(2)
Hosting a Business Meal
134(1)
Cell Phone and Technology Manners
135(1)
Cultural Variations
136(1)
Sexism and Gallantry
137(1)
Spouses and Partners
138(1)
Leaving the Event
139(2)
Chapter 7 Pet Peeves at Dinner Parties
141(26)
Poor Eating Habits
142(4)
Poor Manners
146(3)
Restaurant Behavior
149(8)
Serving Issues in Restaurants
157(3)
Host and Hostess Issues
160(2)
Conversational Gaffes
162(1)
Inappropriate Personal Grooming
163(2)
Behavior of Children
165(2)
Chapter 8 Special Situations: Political Events, Dating Manners, and Very Formal Settings
167(17)
Manners for Public Servants and Elected Officials
167(5)
Hosting Public Servants
172(2)
Dating and Manners
174(2)
Very Formal Dinners
176(2)
Being Served in Very Formal Settings
178(6)
Chapter 9 Enjoying Yourself
184(11)
Monitoring Voice Tone and Volume
185(1)
Using Language with Care
186(1)
Dressing to Enjoy Yourself
186(2)
Managing Personal Space
188(1)
Treating Restaurants with Respect
188(2)
Tipping
190(1)
Pleasures of the Table and the Evening
191(4)
Works Cited 195(2)
Acknowledgments 197
Fred Mayo recently retired as Clinical Professor of Hospitality and Tourism Management at New York University. He has been a college professor, administrator, trainer, and small business owner. He currently teaches etiquette and manners courses. He loves to entertain and make each dinner party special. He has an MBA, a PhD, and certifications in hospitality. He lives in New Paltz, New York.

Michael Gold's photographs have appeared in the New York Times, Fortune, Esquire, and more.