Foreword |
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Preface |
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Acknowledgments |
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About the Authors |
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1 Why Religion Matters to You Right Now and in Your Future Family |
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Why Does the Religion-Family Connection Matter to Us on a Personal Level? |
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Why Does Emerging Adulthood Matter to Us? |
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Why Does the Religion-Family Connection Matter to Us on a Professional Level? |
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Not an Answer Book but a Question Book |
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6 | (1) |
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Why Should Any of This Matter to You? |
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14 | (1) |
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15 | (1) |
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16 | (1) |
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2 What in the World Is Religion? |
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Religion Is Not Spirituality |
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Some BAD/RAP Definitions of Religion |
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20 | (1) |
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Beyond BAD/RAP Definitions of Religion |
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The (Partial) Rejection of the BAD/RAP Hypothesis of Religion |
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Operational Definitions of Religion: How Should We "Measure" Religion? |
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Inviting More Than One Family Member to Sit for the Family Portrait |
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27 | (1) |
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A Three-Dimensional Definition of Religion |
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28 | (5) |
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33 | (1) |
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33 | (1) |
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34 | (1) |
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35 | (2) |
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3 Does Religion Matter to Families? |
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Religious Practices and Well-Being: Individual-Level and Family-Level Connections |
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38 | (2) |
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Religious Beliefs and Well-Being: Individual-Level and Family-Level Connections |
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40 | (2) |
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Faith Community and Well-Being: Individual-Level and Family-Level Connections |
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42 | (2) |
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Religion, Relationships, and Responsibility |
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44 | (2) |
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46 | (2) |
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48 | (1) |
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49 | (1) |
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49 | (3) |
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4 Why Does Religion Matter in Marriage? |
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A Conceptual Model of Family Relationships and the Three Dimensions of Religion |
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53 | (1) |
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The Conceptual Model and the American Families of Faith Research Project |
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53 | (2) |
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Religious Practices and the Marital Relationship: Arrow 1A |
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55 | (1) |
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Religious Beliefs and the Marital Relationship: Arrow 2A |
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56 | (1) |
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Religious Community and the Marital Relationship: Arrow 3A |
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57 | (1) |
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Limited Depth and Color in the Research on Religion and Family |
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58 | (1) |
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What Is Known About Inter-Faith Marriage? |
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58 | (1) |
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Conflict in Inter-Faith Marriage |
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59 | (3) |
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Are You on the Same Page? |
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62 | (2) |
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Challenges in Marriage: Do They Unite or Divide? |
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64 | (1) |
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The Early Years of Marriage: "Growing Up" and Moving from "Me" to "We" |
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65 | (2) |
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The Importance of Being "Equally Yoked" |
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67 | (3) |
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70 | (1) |
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A Review of Connections between Religion and Marriage |
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71 | (2) |
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73 | (1) |
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74 | (1) |
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74 | (4) |
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5 The Influence of Religious Beliefs in Marriage |
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Theme 1 The Unifying Influence of Pro-Marriage Beliefs |
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79 | (4) |
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Theme 2 The Stabilizing Influence of Anti-Divorce Beliefs |
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83 | (8) |
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Theme 3 Religious Beliefs as a Source of Harm in Marriages and Families |
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91 | (6) |
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Theme 4 The Importance of Shared Religious Beliefs in Marriage |
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97 | (5) |
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Theme 5 Faith in God as a Marital Support |
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102 | (4) |
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106 | (1) |
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107 | (1) |
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108 | (1) |
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108 | (3) |
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6 Parenting in Faith---What Research Has Found |
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Religious Practices and the Mother-Child Relationship: Arrow 1B |
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111 | (3) |
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Religious Beliefs and the Mother-Child Relationship: Arrow 2B |
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114 | (1) |
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Religious Community and the Mother-Child Relationship: Arrow 3B |
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115 | (1) |
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Potential Harmful Aspects of Maternal Religious Community Involvement |
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116 | (1) |
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Marital Status and Maternal Support in Religious Communities |
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117 | (1) |
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Religious Practices and the Father-Child Relationship: Arrow 1C |
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118 | (5) |
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Religious Beliefs and the Father-Child Relationship: Arrow 2C |
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123 | (2) |
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Religious Community and the Father-Child Relationship Arrow 3C |
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125 | (4) |
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129 | (1) |
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129 | (1) |
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130 | (1) |
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130 | (5) |
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7 Parenting and American Families of Faith |
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135 | (22) |
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How and Why Does Religion Help and Harm Parent-Child Relationships? |
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138 | (2) |
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Parenting and Congruence in the Faith Walk |
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140 | (3) |
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Talking the Talk: Encouraging Youth-Oriented Religious Conversations |
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Parent-Centered Conversations |
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143 | (2) |
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Youth-Centered Conversations |
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145 | (3) |
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When Parents Are Not What They Should Be |
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148 | (3) |
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The Congruent Example and Faith Walk of Non-Parents |
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151 | (1) |
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152 | (2) |
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154 | (1) |
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154 | (1) |
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155 | (2) |
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8 Muslim Families in the United States |
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What Is Islam? Who Is a Muslim? |
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158 | (1) |
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Muslims in the United States and Muslim U.S. Demographics |
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159 | (1) |
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Challenges of Being a Religious Minority: Muslim Perspectives |
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160 | (1) |
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The Muslim Practice of Hijab |
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160 | (3) |
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Muslim Religious Community |
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163 | (2) |
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Muslim Religious Observance in the Home |
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165 | (4) |
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169 | (1) |
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170 | (1) |
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171 | (1) |
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171 | (2) |
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9 Jewish Families in the United States |
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173 | (18) |
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173 | (1) |
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Who Is a Jew? What Is Judaism? |
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173 | (1) |
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Jews in the United States and Jewish U.S. Demographics |
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174 | (2) |
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Challenges of Being a Religious Minority: Jewish Perspectives |
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176 | (2) |
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178 | (3) |
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Jewish Religious Observance in the Home |
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181 | (6) |
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187 | (1) |
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188 | (1) |
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189 | (1) |
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189 | (2) |
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10 Religion and Diverse Family Forms |
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191 | (24) |
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Does the Shape of Families Shape Faith? |
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192 | (1) |
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The Influence of Divorce and Religion on Emerging Adults |
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192 | (5) |
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God Images and Parental Divorce |
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197 | (2) |
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A Brief Note on Theories of Moral Development |
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199 | (1) |
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Emerging Social Science on How the Decline of Marriage Impacts Faith Communities |
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200 | (10) |
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210 | (1) |
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211 | (1) |
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211 | (1) |
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212 | (3) |
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11 How Religion Influences Coping with Stress and Challenges in Families |
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215 | (19) |
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216 | (1) |
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Variations of Religious Coping |
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216 | (2) |
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Prayer as a Coping Mechanism |
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218 | (2) |
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Religion and Coping as Described by American Families of Faith |
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220 | (1) |
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Theme 1 Religious Beliefs and Coping |
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221 | (4) |
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Theme 2 Religious Practices and Coping |
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225 | (4) |
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229 | (1) |
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230 | (1) |
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231 | (1) |
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231 | (3) |
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12 Forgiveness, Faith, and Families |
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Forgiveness: An Introduction and Definition |
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234 | (1) |
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Forgiveness in Family Relationships |
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235 | (4) |
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Forgiveness: A Review of Social Science Research |
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239 | (1) |
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Forgiveness Is a Process, Not an Event |
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239 | (1) |
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Ways Forgiveness Is Helpful |
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240 | (2) |
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Ways Forgiveness Can Be Harmful |
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242 | (1) |
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Reasons Forgiveness Is Helpful |
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243 | (1) |
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244 | (1) |
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244 | (1) |
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245 | (1) |
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245 | (1) |
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246 | (3) |
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13 What We Have Learned and What We Hope You Will Take with You |
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Chapter 1 Why Religion Matters to You Right Now and in Your Future Family |
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249 | (1) |
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Chapter 2 What in the World Is Religion? |
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250 | (1) |
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Chapter 3 Does Religion Matter to Families? |
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250 | (1) |
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Chapter 4 Why Does Religion Matter in Marriage? |
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251 | (1) |
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Chapter 5 The Influence of Religious Beliefs in Marriage |
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252 | (1) |
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Chapter 6 Parenting in Faith---What Research Has Found |
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253 | (1) |
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Chapter 7 Parenting and American Families of Faith |
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253 | (1) |
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Chapter 8 Muslim Families in the United States |
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254 | (1) |
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Chapter 9 Jewish Families in the United States |
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254 | (1) |
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Chapter 10 Religion and Diverse Family Forms |
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255 | (1) |
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Chapter 11 How Religion Influences Coping with Stress and Challenges in Families |
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256 | (1) |
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Chapter 12 Forgiveness, Faith, and Families |
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257 | (1) |
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Three Take-Home Messages from the Religion and Families Book |
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257 | (3) |
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260 | (1) |
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260 | (3) |
Glossary |
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263 | (6) |
Author Index |
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269 | (3) |
Subject Index |
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