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E-grāmata: Rewriting the Rules: An Anti Self-Help Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships 2nd edition [Taylor & Francis e-book]

  • Formāts: 382 pages, 10 Tables, black and white; 2 Line drawings, black and white; 37 Halftones, black and white
  • Izdošanas datums: 14-Mar-2018
  • Izdevniecība: Routledge
  • ISBN-13: 9781315173061
  • Taylor & Francis e-book
  • Cena: 146,74 €*
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  • Standarta cena: 209,63 €
  • Ietaupiet 30%
  • Formāts: 382 pages, 10 Tables, black and white; 2 Line drawings, black and white; 37 Halftones, black and white
  • Izdošanas datums: 14-Mar-2018
  • Izdevniecība: Routledge
  • ISBN-13: 9781315173061
We live in a time of uncertainty about relationships. We search for The One but find ourselves staying single because nobody measures up. We long for a happily-ever-after but break-up after break-up leave us bruised and confused.

Rewriting the Rules: An Anti Self-Help Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships is a friendly guide through the complicated - and often contradictory - advice that's given about sex and gender, monogamy and conflict, break-up and commitment. It asks questions about the rules of love, such as which to choose from all the rules on offer? Do we stick to the old rules we learnt growing up, or do we try something new and risk being out on our own? And what about the times when the rules we love by seem to make things worse, rather than better?

This new edition, updated throughout, considers how the rules are being 'rewritten' in various ways - for example in monogamish and polyamorous relationships, different ways of understanding sex and gender, and new ideas for managing commitment and break-up where economics, communities, or child-care make complete separation impossible. This book considers how the rules are being rewritten in various ways, giving you the power to find an approach that best fits your situation.
List of Illustrations
xi
Preface to the second edition: rewriting rewriting the rules xiii
1 Rewriting the rules
1(20)
Uncertainty and the rules
2(7)
The rules
9(3)
An anti self-help book?
12(7)
Further resources
19(2)
2 Rewriting the rules of yourself
21(30)
What are the rules?
22(4)
Why question the rules?
26(7)
Alternative rules
33(10)
Beyond rules? Embracing uncertainty
43(7)
Further resources
50(1)
3 Rewriting the rules of love
51(34)
What are the rules?
52(8)
Why question the rules?
60(8)
Alternative rules
68(8)
Beyond rules? Embracing uncertainty
76(7)
Further resources
83(2)
4 Rewriting the rules of sex
85(36)
What are the rules?
86(7)
Why question the rules?
93(10)
Alternative rules
103(9)
Beyond rules? Embracing uncertainty
112(7)
Further resources
119(2)
5 Rewriting the rules of gender
121(38)
What are the rules?
122(6)
Why question the rules?
128(10)
Alternative rules
138(8)
Beyond rules? Embracing uncertainty
146(10)
Further resources
156(3)
6 Rewriting the rules of monogamy
159(38)
What are the rules?
160(7)
Why question the rules?
167(10)
Alternative rules
177(7)
Beyond rules? Embracing uncertainty
184(11)
Further resources
195(2)
7 Rewriting the rules of conflict
197(36)
What are the rules?
198(7)
Why question the rules?
205(9)
Alternative rules
214(8)
Beyond rules? Embracing uncertainty
222(10)
Further resources
232(1)
8 Rewriting the rules of break-up
233(38)
What are the rules?
234(6)
Why question the rules?
240(8)
Alternative rules
248(7)
Beyond rules? Embracing uncertainty
255(14)
Further resources
269(2)
9 Rewriting the rules of commitment
271(40)
What are the rules?
272(6)
Why question the rules?
278(8)
Alternative rules
286(9)
Beyond rules? Embracing uncertainty
295(14)
Further resources
309(2)
10 Rewriting your rules
311(26)
Why not rewrite your rules?
313(11)
Self-care and rewriting the rules
324(8)
Conclusion
332(2)
Further resources
334(3)
Notes 337(30)
Index 367
Dr. Meg-John Barker is the author of popular books including Queer: A Graphic History, How to Understand Your Gender, Enjoy Sex (How, When and IF You Want To), The Psychology of Sex, and The Secrets of Enduring Love. They bring years of experience and expertise from therapy, academic research, and working in communities to the topics of sex, gender, and relationships. You can read Meg-John's blog to accompany this book at rewriting-the-rules.com.