Preface |
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Chapter 1 The Thriving Principles |
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How Shall We Begin? Jean's Story |
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Make The Journey Your Destination |
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Have Traveling Companions |
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Worst Parents Of The Year Award: Jen's Story |
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You'll Go Far In Life: Andrea's Story |
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Exercise 1.1. Whatcha Gonna Be? A Magic Mirror Exercise |
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I'm Going In. Want To Join Me? Lennie's Story |
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Always Take The High Road |
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Chapter 2 Making Your Training Journey |
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Why Not Enjoy The Ride?: Cathy's Story |
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31 | (8) |
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32 | (1) |
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Exercise 2.1. Traditions: A Reminiscing And Planning Exercise |
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35 | (1) |
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Handling Personal Problems |
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Keeping A Beginner's Mind |
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42 | (1) |
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A Deer Caught In The Headlights: Bill's Story |
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43 | (1) |
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Learning From The Inside Out: Teresa's Story |
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Your Relationships With Faculty |
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Comprehensive Examination |
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47 | (5) |
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Graduation And Commencement |
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Chapter 3 Meeting Your Basic Needs |
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Your Personal Hierarchy Of Needs |
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A Constant Challenge: Ellen's Story |
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Basic Needs And Self-Actualization |
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Exercise 3.1. Take That Job And...A Guided Fantasy Exercise |
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Conducting A Needs Inventory |
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Touch The Sun: Renee's Story |
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Exercise 3.2. The Sea Star: A Balancing Exercise |
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We Have Nothing To Fear But...: Beth's Story |
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Exercise 3.3. Your Needs In Context: A Systemic Exercise |
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64 | (3) |
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65 | (1) |
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Adventures In Subsidized Housing Land: Chris's Story |
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Giving Up City Life To Fit Into A Small Town: Dara's Story |
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Exercise 3.4. It Takes A Community: An Exercise In Imagination |
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Kicking And Sleeping: Martin's Story |
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Finding And Creating Perspective |
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The Road From Orange Crackers To Rice: Anne's Story |
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Exercise 3.5. I'll Have The Combo: Meeting Multiple Needs |
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Chapter 4 Enhancing Your Academic Skills |
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More Than I Had Bargained For: Bonnie's Story |
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84 | (2) |
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Developing Critical Reflection Skills |
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Riding The Perturbation Wave |
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Exercise 4.1. The Birdcage: Encountering Oppression |
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Using The Zeigarnik Effect |
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Exercise 4.2. What? So What? Now What? |
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I Learned How To Read All Over Again: Brian's Story |
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Exercise 4.3. Doing A Little Detective Work |
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Learning The Hard Way: Susan's Story |
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Exercise 4.5. Writing Twice-Told Stories |
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Exercise 4.6. Reading: A Writing Exercise |
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Exercise 4.7. Structuring: A Writing Exercise |
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Exercise 4.8. Preparing And Practicing |
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Exercise 4.9. Imagining Success |
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Chapter 5 Mindfully Managing Stress |
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Stressed Out: Bill's Story |
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117 | (2) |
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When It "Hurts Good": Rachel's Story |
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Relaxing, Refreshing, Renewing, And Revitalizing |
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Seeking Professional Help |
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Mindful Management Of Stress |
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Exercise 5.1. Stress For Success |
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Exercise 5.2. Ways Of Saying "No" And "Yes!" |
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Exercise 5.3. The Embracing Attitudes: A Quick Check Exercise |
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Exercise 5.4. Mission: Possible: An Exercise In Envisioning |
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Exercise 5.5. Panning For Gold: Uncovering Strengths And Resources |
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Exercise 5.6. The Sea Star Ii: A Revisiting Exercise |
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Chapter 6 Being With Others |
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Being "Processed": Rebecca's Story |
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Exploring Your Relational Worldview |
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147 | (2) |
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Exercise 6.1. Visitor From Another Planet: A Guided Fantasy |
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The Childlike Feeling Of Possibility: Antoinette's Story |
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Exercise 6.2. Your Hard-Belly Response: A Quiz |
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Giving And Receiving Feedback |
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Exercise 6.3. Giving And Receiving Feedback |
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Important People In Your Training |
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163 | (3) |
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Chapter 7 Exploring Yourself |
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Make Personal Growth Your Goal |
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Thanksgiving Leftovers: Edna's Story |
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172 | (3) |
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Exercise 7.1. "I Am..." Versus "A Counselor Is..." |
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175 | (1) |
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The Need For Personal Growth |
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177 | (5) |
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Exercise 7.2. Things I Hope My Clients Never Say: An Aversion Exercise |
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Consider Counseling For Yourself |
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It Feels Weird For A Counselor To Be A Client: Robert's Story |
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Allow Yourself To Mess Up |
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Avoid The Groucho Paradox |
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Assimilation And Accommodation |
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Accommodating Information About Yourself |
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187 | (1) |
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Honor, But Modify, Your Style |
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Exercise 7.3. Toward, Against, Or Away? A Moving Exercise |
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I Need To Pay Attention To Who I Am: Michelle's Story |
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Find The "I Am" Experience |
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Chapter 8 Becoming Neuro-Minded |
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Neuroscience Of Magic And Counseling |
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200 | (2) |
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Therapists, Minds, And Brains |
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Not As Hard As You Thought |
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There's No Place Like Home: Kiara's Story |
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Promoting Neuroplasticity |
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A Valentine Gift Of Attunement: Gene's Story |
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What We Learned From A Monkey |
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Optimal Emotional Arousal |
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213 | (3) |
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Integration Of Affect And Cognition |
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The Hippocampus And Memory |
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Amygdala And Hippocampus Collaboration |
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The Right-Brain To Right-Brain Connection |
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Co-Construction Of Transformative Narratives |
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Chapter 9 Intervening In Crises, Traumas, And Disasters |
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Crisis Intervention Techniques |
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Out Of An Emergency, Something New Emerges: Lennie's Story |
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Providing Psychological First Aid |
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Mindfully Caring For Yourself |
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250 | (4) |
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Chapter 10 Thriving In Your Practicum And Internship |
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You Are Ready, Although You May Have Doubts |
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How Old Are You?: Jerra's Story |
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Preparing For Practicum: Who Are You? |
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Boudoir: Gabrielle's Story |
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261 | (5) |
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262 | (2) |
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Taking Pictures Along The Way |
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Exercise 10.1. Refreshing Your Memory And Plotting Your Course: A Decision-Making Exercise |
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266 | (3) |
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Writing An Internship Agreement |
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266 | (1) |
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Professional Liability Insurance |
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272 | (2) |
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Making Rest Stops Along The Way |
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These Poor People: Nathaniel's Story |
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Exercise 10.2. First Thoughts: An Exploratory Exercise |
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Making The Most Of Your Internship |
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Chapter 11 Launching Your Career |
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Around The Next Corner: Bill's Story |
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288 | (1) |
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Exercise 11.1. Life Span Time Line |
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From Student To Professional |
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289 | (1) |
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Exercise 11.2. What I Truly Want: A Values Exercise |
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My Sacrificing, Adventurous Ancestors: Michele's Story |
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The Legacy Of My Parents: Gabe's Story |
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292 | (1) |
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Exercise 11.3. Career Genogram |
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Exercise 11.4. Interviewing Two Masters: A Journal Exercise |
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294 | (14) |
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295 | (3) |
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Becoming Professionally Involved |
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297 | (1) |
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Career Possibilities By Degree |
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298 | (3) |
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Careers With A Master's Or EdS |
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298 | (2) |
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301 | (2) |
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Successful Job Interviewing |
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Your Career And Your Life |
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303 | (5) |
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Fitting In And Standing Out |
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Think You're Not Creative? |
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Clock-Watchers And Workaholics |
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Leaving The Nest And Making Mistakes |
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Index |
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