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What Do You Want from Me?: Learning to Get Along with In-Laws [Mīkstie vāki]

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  • Formāts: Paperback / softback, 290 pages, height x width x depth: 211x140x20 mm, weight: 362 g
  • Izdošanas datums: 10-Aug-2010
  • Izdevniecība: WW Norton & Co
  • ISBN-10: 0393338533
  • ISBN-13: 9780393338539
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  • Formāts: Paperback / softback, 290 pages, height x width x depth: 211x140x20 mm, weight: 362 g
  • Izdošanas datums: 10-Aug-2010
  • Izdevniecība: WW Norton & Co
  • ISBN-10: 0393338533
  • ISBN-13: 9780393338539
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An award-winning author addresses the tenacious bonds between in-laws, exploring the ways in which they significantly impact the health and course of a marriage, in a guide that shares practical recommendations for addressing in-law disputes and expectations. Reprint.

When we marry, we believe the bond is between only two individuals. Few of us realize the power that in-laws exert over our lives. What Do You Want from Me? takes a fresh look at how the in-laws we acquire when we marry affect our quality of life--our marriage, family, personal comfort, and long-term well-being--for better or worse. Here is an essential book for husbands and wives, parents and children, seeking to strengthen the bonds of family.

“The cover of What Do You Want from Me? should be stamped read before proceeding down the aisle.”--O, The Oprah Magazine

Recenzijas

"A keenly perceptive interpretation of the kinship structures, fracture lines, and recurrent emotionsresentment, ambivalence, acceptancethat are part and parcel of the in-law experience." -- The Atlantic "With professional grace, Apter exposes the emotional minefields that couples often navigate around in-laws, and the ease with which they become stuck in negative (and familiar) attitudes toward them." -- Publishers Weekly

Acknowledgments vii
Introduction ix
Chapter 1 The Inescapable Power of In-Laws
1(12)
Chapter 2 Why Does It Go Wrong? The Primary Source of Conflict
13(31)
Chapter 3 Are You Really Part of My Family? Insiders and Outsiders
44(27)
Chapter 4 Why Is It So Hard on the Women? Ideals and Competition
71(17)
Chapter 5 Whose Side Are You On? Why It's So Tough to Get Support from Your Spouse
88(24)
Chapter 6 What Is Happening to Me? Becoming a Mother-in-Law
112(27)
Chapter 7 Is Any of This My Fault? Hard Lessons for Ordinary People
139(21)
Chapter 8 Who's the Mother Now? Becoming a Mother, Becoming a Grandmother
160(18)
Chapter 9 What Do I Owe You? Gifts and Debts; Love and Gratitude
178(18)
Chapter 10 Who Do You Think You Are? The Unexpected Impact of Siblings-in-Law
196(18)
Chapter 11 Are We Still Family? Divorce and Connection
214(12)
Chapter 12 Getting Along and Looking Forward Rifts and Reparation Across the Life Span
226(15)
Notes 241(6)
Bibliography 247(8)
Index 255
Terri Apter is a writer, psychologist, and retired Fellow of Newnham College, Cambridge. Her ten books include The Sister Knot, Difficult Mothers, and What Do You Want from Me? She lives in Cambridge, England.