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World Beyond Monogamy: How People Make Polyamory and Open Relationships Work and What We Can All Learn from Them [Mīkstie vāki]

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  • Formāts: Paperback / softback, 558 pages, height x width x depth: 229x152x30 mm, weight: 821 g
  • Izdošanas datums: 15-Mar-2022
  • Izdevniecība: Luminastra Press
  • ISBN-10: 1734658746
  • ISBN-13: 9781734658743
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  • Formāts: Paperback / softback, 558 pages, height x width x depth: 229x152x30 mm, weight: 821 g
  • Izdošanas datums: 15-Mar-2022
  • Izdevniecība: Luminastra Press
  • ISBN-10: 1734658746
  • ISBN-13: 9781734658743
Skills to make every relationship better. We're living through a relationship revolution. Millions around the world are moving beyond coupledom to explore multiple consensual romantic and/or sexual connections. One in five Americans are thought to have experimented with 'monogamish,' open relationships, swinging, polyamory, or relationship anarchy and more with the knowledge and consent of all those involved. But to make these relationships work consensually, non monogamous people have to supercharge relating skills like communication and negotiation, skills that can benefit us all, whether we love many or just one. In this ground-breaking book former BBC and Reuters journalist Jonathan Kent takes a comprehensive took at the frontiers of love and sex; the triumphs, the pitfalls, the tools one needs, the lessons we can all learn. A World Beyond Monogamy draws on the first hand experience of scores of people from six continents who are writing their own relationship rules, as well as on the expertise of biologists, sociologists, psychologists, and philosophers.
Foreword xiii
Dr. Meg-John Barker
Introduction 1(10)
Section One There's a Whole Wide World Out There
1 What Is Consensual Non-Monogamy?
11(4)
2 The Naming of Things
15(4)
3 Consent
19(8)
4 The Road To Consensual Non-Monogamy
27(6)
5 Why Consensual Non-Monogamy
33(8)
6 CNM as an Orientation
41(4)
7 Deciding to Explore Consensual Non-Monogamy
45(6)
8 The Culture We're In
51(14)
9 God, Nature and Other Adversaries
65(14)
10 Dealing With Prejudice
79(8)
11 Opening Up a Relationship
87(14)
12 First Steps
101(6)
13 Coming Out
107(18)
Section Two It Ain't What You Do, It's The Way That You Do It
14 Relationship Styles
125(4)
15 Monogamish
129(4)
16 Swinging
133(10)
17 Open Relationships and Don't Ask, Don't Tell
143(12)
18 Polyamory
155(2)
19 Hierarchical Polyamory: `Couple-Plus'
157(4)
20 Being a Treatise Upon Triads, Quads & Divers Polygones
161(4)
21 Polyfidelity
165(6)
22 Poly Families and Poly Networks
171(6)
23 Kitchen Table and Parallel Poly
177(4)
24 Solo Polyamory
181(8)
25 Relationship Anarchy
189(14)
Section Three Heffalump Traps
26 Managing CNM Relationships
203(2)
27 Poly/Mono Relationships
205(8)
28 The Thing About Couples
213(12)
29 If You're Thinking of Dating a Couple
225(4)
30 Unicornes and the Huntinge Thereof
229(8)
31 The One-Penis Policy and its Discontents
237(8)
32 A Consensually Non-Monogamous Person's Bill of Rights
245(12)
33 Metamours
257(8)
34 New Relationship Energy
265(6)
35 Sex
271(6)
36 Do Consensually Non-Monogamous People Have Better Sex?
277(4)
37 Asexuality and Demisexuality
281(4)
38 Overlaps with Kink/Fetish/BDSM Communities
285(8)
39 Sexual Health
293(8)
40 Mental Health
301(10)
Section Four It's Illogical Captain
41 Jealousy
311(6)
42 What Titi Monkeys Know
317(4)
43 Does Jealousy Have a Purpose?
321(8)
44 What Attachment Theory Can Tell Us
329(8)
45 Anxiety, Fear and Guilt
337(6)
46 Coping with Anxiety and Other Mental Health Issues
343(8)
47 Insecurity
351(12)
48 Compersion
363(8)
Section Five Loves Kills Love Skills
49 Healthy Relationships
371(4)
50 Being `Fair'
375(6)
51 Communication
381(20)
52 Honesty, Radical or Otherwise
401(10)
53 Rules, Agreements and Boundaries
411(14)
54 Negotiating
425(8)
55 Veto
433(4)
56 Commitments
437(6)
57 Celebrating Poly Relationships
443(4)
58 Scheduling
447(6)
Section Six It's Political, Innit?!
59 The Politics of Consensual Non-Monogamy
453(4)
60 Money, Class and the Social Divide
457(6)
61 Gender, Gender Roles and Feminism
463(8)
62 Poly and Orientation
471(8)
63 Ethnicity
479(16)
64 Neuroatypicality
495(6)
65 Faith and Beliefs
501(8)
Section Seven Hell is Other People
66 Community: Being Part of the Tribe
509(6)
67 Abuse
515(12)
68 Leadership and Justice
527(8)
69 Healing
535(4)
70 Raising Children
539(8)
71 Legal Considerations
547(8)
72 `Trivial' Problems
555(2)
73 Going Monogamous
557(2)
74 Where Does It Go From Here?
559(8)
Thanks and Acknowledgements
563(4)
Section Eight Appendices
Appendix 1 Less Common Poly Configurations
567(2)
Appendix 2 Resources
569(2)
Appendix 3 Acknowledgements and Biographies
571