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Your Coping Skills Aren't Working: Move Beyond the Outdated, Ineffective Habits That Once Worked but Now Hold You Back [Mīkstie vāki]

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  • Formāts: Paperback / softback, 192 pages, height x width x depth: 226x152x14 mm, weight: 280 g
  • Izdošanas datums: 29-Jun-2023
  • Izdevniecība: New Harbinger Publications
  • ISBN-10: 1648480993
  • ISBN-13: 9781648480997
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  • Formāts: Paperback / softback, 192 pages, height x width x depth: 226x152x14 mm, weight: 280 g
  • Izdošanas datums: 29-Jun-2023
  • Izdevniecība: New Harbinger Publications
  • ISBN-10: 1648480993
  • ISBN-13: 9781648480997
"It's time to move beyond the self-destructive coping "skills" that hold you back! The coping styles we develop in childhood are often the result of stressful or traumatic experiences. And while they once worked to keep us feeling safe, they do not serveus well in adulthood. This breakthrough guide offers an innovative and evidence-based approach grounded in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), schema therapy, and attachment theory to help you break free from the coping habits that keep you stuck in a cycle of self-sabotaging negative thoughts and behaviors.In this eye-opening book, you'll identify the maladaptive coping patterns you developed in childhood, understand why you developed them, and learn how to change those destructive habits standing between you and a happier life. You'll also discover powerful strategies to help you give voice to your unmet needs; and learn to cultivate clarity, security, and confidence in yourself and what you need.Dysfunctional coping styles are often the relics of damaging childhood experiences. But your past doesn't need to dictate your future. With this guide, you can finally get unstuck from the habits that hinder your personal growth, get in the way of healthy relationships, and keep you from reaching your highest potential"--

"It's time to move beyond the self-destructive coping strategies that hold you back! The coping styles we develop in childhood are often the result of stressful or traumatic experiences. And while they once worked to keep us feeling safe, they do not serve us well in adulthood. This essential guide offers readers an innovative and evidence-based approach grounded in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and attachment theory-to move beyond self-sabotaging negative thoughts and behaviors and ultimately live better lives"--

It’s time to move beyond the self-destructive coping "skills" that hold you back!

The coping styles we develop in childhood are often the result of stressful or traumatic experiences. And while they once worked to keep us feeling safe, they do not serve us well in adulthood. This breakthrough guide offers an innovative and evidence-based approach grounded in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), schema therapy, and attachment theory to help you break free from the coping habits that keep you stuck in a cycle of self-sabotaging negative thoughts and behaviors.

In this eye-opening book, you’ll identify the maladaptive coping patterns you developed in childhood, understand why you developed them, and learn how to change those destructive habits standing between you and a happier life. You’ll also discover powerful strategies to help you give voice to your unmet needs; and learn to cultivate clarity, security, and confidence in yourself and what you need.

Dysfunctional coping styles are often the relics of damaging childhood experiences. But your past doesn’t need to dictate your future. With this guide, you can finally get unstuck from the habits that hinder your personal growth, get in the way of healthy relationships, and keep you from reaching your highest potential.



It’s time to move beyond the self-destructive coping strategies that hold you back! The coping styles we develop in childhood are often the result of stressful or traumatic experiences. And while they once worked to keep us feeling safe, they do not serve us well in adulthood. This essential guide offers readers an innovative and evidence-based approach grounded in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and attachment theory—to move beyond self-sabotaging negative thoughts and behaviors and ultimately live better lives.
Foreword vii
Introduction: How to Talk Yourself into Change 1(13)
1 Troublesome Coping Skills and the Self-Esteem Solution
14(15)
2 Your Origin Story: Unmet Core Emotional Needs
29(17)
3 What Are Your Schemas, and Where Do They Come From?
46(28)
4 Modes: The Characters in Your Origin Story
74(31)
5 Bringing It All Together with the Healthy Caring Adult Mode
105(18)
6 Mode Dialogues Show You a New Way
123(28)
7 Becoming the New You: Mindfulness and the Ecosystem of Growth
151(24)
Acknowledgments 175(2)
Appendix 177(4)
References 181
Richard Brouillette, LCSW is a certified schema therapist working with entrepreneurs, creatives and activists who have plateaued and are trying to overcome anxiety, find fulfillment, and improve relationships. Richard has published in The New York Times, Salon and Psych Central. He is the Psychology Today Expert Opinion blogger of "Flipping Out: Changing Mindsets with Schema Therapy." He has a number of professional affiliations, and in 2020, Richard was elected Executive Board Secretary of the International Society for Schema Therapy.